
Niño Calinao would have been 30 today. But he already wrote 30 on that fateful day eight years ago.
Kahit wala na siya, inalala pa rin namin noon ang kanyang kaarawan. May kuwento ako sa Birthday ng Isang Kaibigang Pinaslang.
Ngayong taon, ni hindi ko nakausap ang kanyang mga kaibigan. ‘Di na rin nagkita-kita ang barkada naming kanyang sinamahan noon.
At sa bayang itong puno ng kabalitunaan, sumapit ang kaarawan ni Niño habang nagluluksa ang pamilya at mga kaibigan ni Cris Anthony Mendez, ang umano’y Sigma Rho fraternity neophyte na hinihinalang namatay sa hazing.
Ilang taon na ang nakalilipas, habang isinasagawa ang “Kalinaw” concert sa alaala ni Niño, namatay naman ang Alpha Phi Beta brother na si Den Daniel Reyes matapos makipagsaksakan sa mga kaaway na kasapi ng Sigma Rho.
Narito ang listahan ng mga katulad nina CA, Niño at Daniel: Casualties of fraternity-related violence in UP.

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it’s been that long already? i was still in highschool when niño died, ang lungkot. tuwing dumadaan ako dun sa kung saan siya namatay nalulungkot talaga ako.
@JM: Lagi na lang ganito.
@kuro: kakaiba sila. sobra.
they call us, people who do not belong in frats/soros, barbarians, pero iyung iba sa kanila, (‘di ko naman nilalahat) ang siyang barbaric.
naaawa ako sa mga pamilya ng mga namatay. hindi ko rin maintindihan ang kultura ng fraternity. i’ve done stories about them, and i tried to comprehend their convictions, pero ‘di ko pa rin maintindihan bakit ganun sila.
i told a friend once, pwede ka namang magkaroon ng brotherhood nang ‘di nagsasakitan. sa mga simbahan, sa office, ‘di ba bro rin ang tawagan?
Happy Birthday Niño! Gaya ng mga iba pang namatay, let’s prove they have not died in vain. Let’s keep their memory alive. =)